Monday, June 3, 2013

If You Had Told Me...

Life is anything but simple. We must swim through oceans, climb the tallest mountains, and soar through the thunderstorms of life. We are constantly challenged, constantly pressing on toward greater and amazing things that we never even imagined before. Life isn't always an exciting thing for us, but the fact that we are still here to live it is in itself- a miracle.
Life is also full of surprises.
Some are amazingly beautiful surprises, such as

                                the birth of twin baby brothers
                                a trip to Disney World
                                befriending someone you didn't always like
                                having a stepfather (Ladder) who loves you unconditionally
                                having your mom as your best friend
                                being financially stable enough to pay off your car
                                being kissed for the first time
                                losing weight
                                traveling around the world....

And some surprises are not so beautiful...
                                 divorce of parents
                                 death of my beloved dog, Jewel
                                 losing my precious Papaw James
                                 totaling my first car
                                 first "breakup"
                                 gaining weight

However, in light of all the negative surprises in life, there is always a silver lining. One of the things I've realized is that in life, bad things are going to happen. You will probably do bad on a test, you might get a speeding ticket, or you might lose someone close to you by death or by breakup. However, if you can keep your focus on what is important instead of the things that weigh you down and cause you pain, then your life will be much smoother.

You have only one life, so live it!
You want to go sky diving- GO!
You want to go walk on the Wall of China- DO IT (but be mindful of police lol)!
You want to take a road trip by yourself- HIT THE ROAD!

One thing people are so scared of these days is being different from others. Yes, I'm a student. Yes, I have a full time job. But YES, I have an ache to explore the world around me.

And that's okay. Its okay to be curious, and to have the desire to familiarize with the world around me.
I truly believe that when I am laid to rest, I will have a lifetime of memories, from all over the world.
And that is a life worth having....
a great life, indeed.